Taryn, some men reading your post may cringe at whether they’re using #2 or #3. When you say you’ve had loads of bad sex, that’s too bad really.

When we have bad sex with one partner or multiple partners, that’s our choice to #sayno to #badsex. Communication like you said can change things a lot.

Finding what pleases our partner, give and receive, is not that hard. That is so, unless men have some sort of physical reason why they can’t perform. Too much porn or masturbation perhaps? They can’t last the distance to ensure their female partner has an orgasm too.

Men who have their orgasm then fall asleep afterwards. While their woman is feeling frustrated. Don’t repeat this experience then. Or talk about it. Will he change his ways to keep his woman satisfied in bed?